After 9 malefactor

In all my two decades and some years of existence on this planet, I have always advocated for heterosexuals whom my friends and fellow gay beings accused of sleeping with gay peeps in secret. It is very unfair and totally wrong for us to consider every good looking man to be gay, I would say.

Of course, siding with straight people was not backed by any tangible evidence from my side. Except for the fact that it is possible for straight people to be very good friends with gay people and yet not be sexually attracted to them.

My friends and fellow gay beings, however, would reveal very explicit details about some of the so called “straight people” we know.  A few are ordinary people while a lot is in the public eye. Still, I stood and still stand by my premise that up until I see him (straight one) doing something sexual (even if it is kissing) with another man, or have him admit to having had an affair with another man, then I will come forth and agree and admit to being wrong.

Nonetheless, things have happened; straight men got caught in bed with other men. Straight men admitted to having had affairs with brothers-in-law and boys next-door. Married folks are “taking care” of feminine high school boys while their wives are struggling to find better ways to restore the youth of their sagging breasts as a result of trying to restore the spark in the bedroom of a man who is sexually attracted to men. Not that they know what their men are up to after 9.

Sad... Really sad

One friend said every man is gay. Again, I disputed that, stating that we as gay people refuse to be alone against the homophobes of this world. We refuse to stay ordinary, and so we want to have famous faces to admit or at least be associated with homosexual acts. That way, we are represented in almost every aspect of life.

However, famous men have been caught in the act by their female partners. Dignified women kept their mouths shut while the attention seeking ones vented through media. Mine at this stage is to stick to my statement, which is, I will only believe these men are gay once concrete evidence is at my exposure.

Having been in denial still on behalf of the straight people, news continues to be delivered in regards to men who sleep with other men in secret, but yet remain homophobic in the public eye.

In recent revelations, Eric Massa, (former) American Democratic politician, is alleged to have sexually harassed two male assistants. Massa, nonetheless, denies these allegations stating that he was merely tickling the one guy "... until he couldn't breathe, then four guys jumped on top of me. It was my 50th birthday. … It was kill the old guy... “

Another revelation is of one of the most famous bishops in the world, Bishop Eddie Long (despite been a prominent homophobe) who has three men alleging that he sexually assaulted them, with one claiming that Bishop flew him around the world with his private plane and sexually abused him along the way.

Acts of sin... Poor men

Is this rape? Is it really assault? Or someone wanted the “do” to last for longer? Or maybe the “victim” felt cheated and jealous when the perpetrator recruited other men for the same services? When and how will we ever know? Is this war between the gay community and straight Christian community? Are men like Massa and Long gay or they simply use gay men (or any men, for that matter) for sexual purposes?

Long and Massa are two individuals who have lied by presenting a false image of themselves to the public. Yes, maybe they are not really homosexuals but their curiosity sure led them to enjoy being sexually involved with other men. So, where do they stand now in the society?

I should think the same men they stood with when opposing the whole homosexuality issue want to know, in case Massa or Long advances his experimental tactics to the other straight men and to their kids.

I wonder if their communities still think homosexuality is disgusting, contagious and sinful now that a Bishop has sexually harassed not only one man but THREE men.

Maybe the bible has a scripture somewhere in which it clearly states that only popular bishops can lay other men, despite having no love but sexual feelings for them.

Having named only public figures, it does not mean the ordinary men are relaxing. Their stuff is merely circulating amongst their neighbours, lovers, families and friends.

Happy read!